Take control, use defensive strategies, don't be the aggressor, two wrongs don't make it right
Use commonsense, stay out of harms way
Contact the police. Depending on the seriousness of the matter the police will either give you good advise or take action against the bullies.
Medical attention? Early intervention and diagnoses is crucial

  Medical and Psychological Problems
Evidence has proven that many people can suffer from various medical conditions. Sometimes they don't seek medical attention until later on in life which can lead to far more serious problems and also a life of hardship.

  Reports have proven high risks of various conditions such as
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Stress Insomnia Reactive depression High blood pressure
Anxiety Migraine Reduced immunity to infection Dysmenorrhoea
Depression Panic attacks Hormonal Disorders Loss of libido
Sweating Internal ulcers Sense of isolation Impotence
Psoriasis Eczema Long term unemployment Angina
Anhedonia Fibromyalgia Financial hardship Fatigue
Paruresis Loss of appetite Emotional breakdown Skin disorders
Urticaria Petit mal seizures Impoverishment Hypersensitivity
Restlessness Poor concentration Disturbed menstrual cycle Palpitations
Mood swings Insecurity Thyroid Disorder Agoraphobia
Panic attacks PTSD PTS - Post-traumatic syndrome Trembling

  As you can see by the above list, there is no doubt Bullying can have devastating consequences to the victims.

 
"Bullying is a very serious issue that should not be ignored. There are millions of victims worldwide"

  Remember you are not alone, do not feel ashamed. Many people are going through the same thing. You are worth so much more than a bully will ever be. No one likes a bully!

  It's important to seek medical attention if you suffer from any of the above symptoms no matter how minor it may seem. Early intervention and diagnoses will result in far better outcome.
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  Often Bullies Won't Admit Their Guilt
Criminal psychologist reports that bullies often divert attention by using false conciliation. Among their peer groups they use plenty of charm, yet the motive of the charm is "deception". They will make up anything spontaneously to fit their own needs at that moment.

  All too often a Bully resorts to all sorts of traits such as; constant criticism, nit-picking, denial, charm and being very convincing. Yet the hidden agenda is very devious, manipulative and compulsive lying.

  When a Bully is confronted by the law the typical responses you'll get is:
 * four examples:
 01: This is so trivial it's not worth talking about.
 02: Would never hurt anyone, and that's the TRUTH!!
 03: Duh! That happened last year, now it's all in the past.
 04: A guy tortured and raped 12 children, it that happened 50 years ago so now it's all in the past! Forget the past. (clear example of the response; "The past is past")

  The above are just several examples of typical responses from a Bully and are abdications of responsibility. Clearly an attempt to divert attention by using false conciliation. Now Imagine if these responses of defence were permissible in court to all criminals including murderers? - it certainly would be cause for dreadful concern.

Signs of Wisdom - Deterrent to Bullies
Cold Hard Facts About Bullies

  Bullies are Extremely Irrational and Prejudice
"You cannot reason with bullies because it's like talking to a brick wall. Bullies think the world revolves around them, they think they're oh so cool! But the fact is, they're cold heartless fools"

  Bullies
- Pack Group
Quite often Bullies hang in packs (groups), Bully Groups have no morals or respect for others, and they get their cheap thrills, the more the merrier for them. They are cruel heartless thugs, they are extremely irrational, prejudice and destructive. On the Internet, "you don't need to get hit to get hurt"

  Some people don't care or understand the effects of bullying! In worse cases the victims of Bullying can be severely harmed for life or die at the hands of a Bully.

  Internet Bullying
Nowadays there are "Hi-Tech" Bullies, it's a cowardly act! Bullies attack without being face to face with their victim(s)

  In cyberspace it's all too easy for bullies to cause disruptions and harm knowing they never have to come face to face with their victim(s). It's about time tougher laws are introduced. There needs to be more awareness about Bullying, action needs to be taken to protect anyone who is subjected to a horrible situation that is out of control in cyberspace "Internet Bullying"

  Miss Bully
When trying to settle a dispute by taking Miss Bully to a highly respected TV court "Judge Judy". The terms: a "Free" all expenses paid including court costs, airfare and hotel stay in Los Angeles no matter if Miss Bully lost the court-case. She had nothing to lose financially but to settle a dispute. Yet Miss Bully made a mockery of the court and said NO!. Unfortunately anyone can refuse to sign a contract to appear on TV court "Judge Judy"

 The main objective was to settle a dispute in a civil manner. But instead, the whole situation turned for the worse.

  What Miss Bully does is use false conciliation, she lies whilst she claims to be telling the truth. She got too many people involved, among her peer group she used plenty of charm, yet the motive of her charm is "deception". She conjured up anything spontaneously to fit her own needs at that moment simply to make herself appear to be right, to deceive her peers, yet in turn she fired up more anger among her circle of meanness.

  Whenever Miss Bully says "trust" and "honesty" those words can often be the words of a manipulative liar. It's all too easy to mislead the uninformed, and when that happens the circle of meanness spins out of control.

  Internet Bullying is a major problem that effects millions of people worldwide.

  "You don't need to get hit to get hurt"

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